Services

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Specializations

Therapy for Women for Childhood Trauma

Are you tired of feeling like your unresolved childhood trauma is holding you back? You’ve spent years appearing composed on the outside, but inside, you’re dealing with constant stress, anxiety, and the lingering effects of a chaotic childhood. No matter how hard you try, it feels like you’re never enough.

I specialize in therapy for women who have experienced childhood trauma and abuse. Together, we can work to break the patterns that keep you stuck so you can regain your sense of self-worth and build the life you deserve. My goal is to help you move beyond just coping with symptoms and create real, lasting change, so you can finally experience inner peace and self-acceptance.

Therapy for Childhood Trauma Can Help With:

  • Emotional Healing: Overcome anxiety, stress, and self-doubt rooted in past trauma.
  • Healthier Relationships: Build meaningful connections with clear boundaries.
  • Increased Self-Worth: Reconnect with your inherent value and self-confidence.
  • More Peace & Calm: Move beyond coping to experience inner calm and self-acceptance while learning practical tools to manage stress.
  • Empowerment: Gain tools to prioritize your needs and make empowered choices.
  • Breaking Negative Patterns: Identify and change behaviors that no longer serve you.

Therapy for People Pleasing & Caregiver Burnout

Many individuals find themselves trapped in the cycle of people pleasing, constantly striving to meet others’ expectations while neglecting their own mental health and well-being. This pattern often originates in childhood, where your sense of worth or safety may have been tied to making others happy. As a result, you may feel disconnected from your true self, overwhelmed by the demands of those around you, and burdened with guilt when prioritizing your own needs. You might feel as though no one truly knows you because you’re always “performing” to meet others’ expectations. This can leave relationships feeling one-sided and draining, leading to caregiver burnout and emotional exhaustion.

Therapy for people pleasing provides a supportive, non-judgmental space to explore the root causes of these behaviors and how they impact your life today. Together, we will work on shifting the deep-seated beliefs driving your people-pleasing tendencies, helping you reconnect with your authentic self and desires. In the process, you’ll learn to set healthy boundaries without guilt, reclaim your energy, and build more balanced, fulfilling relationships.

Therapy for people pleasing can help you with:

  • Healthy Boundaries: Learn to say no and set limits without feeling guilty.
  • Authentic Relationships: Build mutually fulfilling and balanced connections.
  • Increased Self-Worth: Reconnect with your true self and recognize your inherent value.
  • Feel Connected & Authentic: Experience your emotions safely and live more authentically.
  • Resilience and Confidence: Develop the strength to face discomfort and prioritize your own needs.

Therapy for Healing from Sexual Trauma

Surviving childhood sexual abuse or sexual trauma as an adult can deeply affect your relationships, sense of self, and overall well-being. The trauma you’ve experienced may leave you feeling hypervigilant, disconnected from your emotions, and struggling to trust others. These are your brain and body’s protective responses, trying to keep you safe, even long after the trauma has passed.

Common effects of sexual trauma include hypervigilance, emotional numbness, avoidance, difficulty concentrating, flashbacks, panic attacks, and intense feelings of shame and guilt. These symptoms can make it difficult to form healthy relationships, assert your needs, and feel secure in your own body.

Therapy for sexual trauma can provide a safe and supportive environment to help you work through these challenges. Together, we can help you:

  • Emotional Safety: Reconnect with your emotions in a way that feels safe and manageable.
  • Trust and Connection: Learn to build and maintain healthy, trusting relationships.
  • Empowerment: Reclaim your sense of agency and confidently assert your needs.
  • Relief from Symptoms: Reduce anxiety, flashbacks, and other trauma-related symptoms.
  • Self-Compassion: Cultivate a kinder relationship with yourself, freeing yourself from shame and guilt.

About

Hi there, I’m Jaclyn Rubbo

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist | Trauma Specialist


I’m a licensed therapist in Montana & California and a trauma therapist with over a decade of experience. I believe that healthy relationships are the foundation of healthy communities, and this begins with how we relate to ourselves. I am passionate about helping women create more loving and compassionate connections, both internally and externally.

My approach to therapy is depth-oriented, collaborative, and holistic. This means that we work together as partners in your healing process. I see you as the whole, complex person that you are and focus on addressing the root causes of your pain, not just the symptoms or behaviors that arise from it. I can help you reclaim your self-worth, build healthy relationships with clear boundaries, and experience greater inner peace and emotional freedom.

I aim to build a respectful and safe therapeutic relationship where all parts of you are welcome. Together, we’ll hold space for the unique context of your life, including past trauma and painful experiences, while exploring how these experiences show up today—as thoughts, sensations, emotions, memories, and in relationships. Through our work, you can begin to live more fully in the present and move forward with greater freedom, without having to relive or dwell on the past.

I am here to help you move toward what you want most for yourself, with compassion and care.

Let’s explore the next right step for you.
Schedule a free no pressure 15 minute consultation to get started today.